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Creating something is a process full of fear. There are constant doubts and struggles and questions that haunt. Whether you are starting a business, writing a song, or preaching a sermon – there comes a moment when the thing you have created has to be shared. And then the doubts and questions get louder. Because once it’s out there – it’s open to criticism. It’s open to opinion. Some may reject it. Some may not like it at all. Some may receive it in a way that is different than you offered it.
I know that for me the 24 hours or so after I preach a sermon is a very critical time. I often walk off the stage and want to crawl right in a hole. Making eye contact is painful. It’s as though I’ve just ripped off a scab and now it’s open to the elements. I think that’s pretty normal. I’ve heard similar things from other pastors or musicians or artists. Creating something and then putting it out there is a terrifying ordeal. The artist pours herself into her craft. It’s her heart and her soul that is on display. She has shared something that is deeply personal and very much a part of her.
Whether it’s a pie you baked from scratch, the way you decorate your living room, or the new business venture you’ve just announced – those first moments when you share it with the world are critical moments. If we’re not careful, we can easily let the response of others deter us from ever trying again.
But it’s what we do. We create. We make art. We start things. When Genesis tells us that we were made in the image of God, the only thing we know of God at that point is that He’s a Creator. It’s who we are. It’s in our nature.
I believe that you have something to offer the world. You have an idea. You have a killer recipe. You have a song. You have an online business idea. There’s a blanket that needs knitting. There’s a child that needs mentoring. There’s a garden to be planted.
My guess is that somewhere along the line you tried something and you failed. You put an idea out there and it got shot down. You painted a picture and it was picked apart. You wrote a blog post and no one read it. You planted roses and they died. And so you stopped. You decided not to try again. You withdrew into a safer world.
I believe that when you and I aren’t creating we aren’t living the kind of lives that God intended for us. I believe it’s woven into your soul to create. To initiate. To start something.
So I want to encourage you to create something today. And then do it again tomorrow. And the next day. Start drawing again. Push “publish” on the blog. Make the pie. Paint the living room. Start the business.
Oh yeah, and that picture above? That’s a book I’m writing. And it scares me to death to say that. Because at some point I’ll put it out there. And then I won’t be able to make eye contact with anyone for a week. Maybe longer.
I am convinced that if a person isn’t learning and growing they either aren’t having an impact at all or their impact will be short lived. So every year I set some goals for myself in terms of reading and learning. This year my goal was to read 36 books. Well, it’s time to pay the piper. While I didn’t quite reach my goal, I didn’t do too shabby either. Here’s the list:
- Money, Eternity, and Possessions – Alcorn
- The Cloak – Gogol // Master and Man – Tolstoy
- Pujols: More than the game – Ellsworth
- Built to Last – Collins
- Big churches getting bigger – Morgan
- Courageous Leadership – Hybels
- Gracism – Anderson
- Developing the Leader within you – Maxwell
- The Advantage – Lencioni
- Velvet Elvis – Bell
- The Fred Factor – Sanborn
- Simply Jesus – NT Wright
- IT – Groeschel
- Platform – Hyatt
- The New Traditional Church – Tony Morgan
- Real Marriage – Driscoll
- The Measure of our Success – Lovejoy
- The Top Ten Mistakes Leaders Make – Finzel
- You are a Writer – Goins
- Creating Innovators – Wagner
- A million miles in a thousand years – Miller
- The myth of a Christian nation – Boyd
- Greater – Furtick
- Fresh Air – Hodges
- God’s Politics – Wallis
- Deep and Wide – Stanley
- Love Does – Goff
- It’s Personal: surviving and thriving on the journey of planting a church – Bloye
- The 5 Levels of Leadership – Maxwell
Somewhere during the year I made the transition to mostly digital books. While I sometimes miss the feel of a book in my hands, I don’t regret it. I now have all my books right there in my kindle app and all of my highlights and notes are synced across all my platforms through Evernote. That means no more searching and wondering where that one line of that one book was (or was it the other book?) ever again. Everything is now searchable instantly.
I also learned that this much reading was a bit too much for me. Along with doing a reading plan to read through the bible this year, I found myself sometimes reading simply to check it off a list and get on to the next one – after all there was a rather aggressive goal to reach. I need to spend more time digesting what I’m reading and trying to take one or two key concepts or thoughts away from what I read instead of the “drink from a firehose” technique.
It’s hard to say what the “best” book I read this year was, mainly because I read many of them for different reasons. Some were for sermon preparation, others for spiritual growth, others for personal development. But I think the one or two books that I will come back to again and again are “Courageous Leadership” by Hybels, “Deep and Wide” by Stanley, and probably the one that will continue to shape me the most was “The 5 Levels of Leadership” by Maxwell.
So I’m already forming a reading list for 2013. Many of the titles on that list are re-reads. I want to go back to some of the books that shaped me the most and revisit them. What about you? What should have made my list this year? What would you recommend I get to in 2013?
When my wife and I had our third child, we went through a really difficult adjustment time. It took us probably anywhere from 3-6 months to find our groove again as a family. During that time a friend reminded me of something pretty obvious – our lives had changed. (I know, I said it was obvious.) The two child family had been forever replaced by the three child family. And so we were in a period of not only a great gain, but a significant loss. You know what? He was right. Our new reality, as awesome as it was, also included a significant loss.
I’m always on the lookout for things that will help me be more productive. If there’s a new way to do something better and more efficiently, I usually want to know where I can get my hands on it. So here’s a few things that have helped me lately:
- Evernote – If you aren’t using this tool yet, why not? Evernote is a web based software with desktop / iphone / ipad versions that keeps all of your thoughts, ideas, and things to remember organized. You can write notes, capture things with pictures, load documents, forward yourself emails, and lots more. Everything is organized, searchable, tag-able, and easy to access from every platform.
- Whiteboards – Ok, so this isn’t very high tech, but for me it’s one of my favorite things about my new office. I have lots of whiteboards covering most of my walls. I’m a person that needs to see things big. I like to be able to put up my thoughts, organize, see the big picture all at once. AND, it doesn’t have to be expensive. Home Depot sells whiteboard type material (I think it’s used for bathrooms somewhere) that you can buy for about $13 for a 4′ x 8′ section. I bought two and had them cut one in half. So I now have two 4′ x 4′ squares, and one full 4′ x 8′ whiteboard hanging on my walls. I hung them with Command wall hanging strips – so when it is time to move, there are no nails, screws, or any other marks that will be left on the walls. So whatever works for you, find a way to make it happen. For me there was a need to see things large. I found a cheap way to do it and it has changed everything for me.
- 30/30 app – Ok, so my newest and most favorite thing is this app. It is available for iphone and ipad. I use it primarily on ipad in my office. It is a totally customizable timer app that will run in the background even if you switch to other apps (which I am doing frequently). At the beginning of my day I start with my to-do list. With the app, I create timed events for each project I want to work on. I have found that I can work for 45 minutes to an hour on one single project before I need a change of pace. So I set up my projects, press play, and get to work. An alarm sounds when time is up and it’s time to move on to the next thing on my list. I don’t know what it is, but setting a timer on myself has REVOLUTIONIZED my work. I get way more done. I make decisions on things quicker. I don’t get bogged down on one thing, and it eliminates distractions for me. I know that I have 30 minutes scheduled later on for email, so I can turn it off right now and get to work on whatever is pressing.
One bonus thought:
I recently got an office outside of my home. I had no idea how distracted I was at home until I got here and was able to completely control my space and time. I estimate that I get 2-3 times more done now that I am outside of my home. AND while my kids miss me during the day, I think I am way more present with them when I get home. The line between working and being dad was always pretty fuzzy when they would see me throughout the day. In the evenings I found it easy to slip back into the office and answer another round of emails. Now, there’s a clear definitive line between work and home and my work and family life have benefited a ton.
Does any of this help you? What are you doing that makes your life work better? What is keeping you from getting more out of your day?